…ize so many things, much of it on a smaller scale though, but the main principles are all the same. And I’m intriged by all the manipulation I read. ( so hurry up with the rest of the story! Go sit behind your desk and don’t stop writing ‘till it’s…
Believe me…it was crazy! He was one smart, very manipulative mfer! He got me! He did!
Anyway, I wrote a memoir, about my life overcoming childhood abuse at the hands of my father, blah, blah, blah, I’m kinda sick of talking about it at this point. Anyway, in a chapter of that book, I write about this entire relationship. It’s Chapter 12- True Love, Miracles and Other Spiritual Experiences.
I believe this relationship was a spiritual test- it was like, everything you ever hated and loved in life, you going to have to deal with in this relationship…and I did. But oh boy! It was a doozy!
But because it’s just a chapter, the realtionship, the events that took place within it, it’s really condensed. No where near the detail I am going into here.
I always wanted to write a book about this relationship only — because OMG- it was so crazy, everything that happened! I was certain…someone was going to be dead, and that was how the relationship was gonna be over…
And yet, it turned out okay — between us. He was murdered, about seven years after the relationship ended. It broke my heart and really affected me…it was what led me to write the memoir in the first place. I used that memoir to teach hundreds of students about trauma and domestic violence- and like I said that male students, they love him as he is portrayed as a character in that memoir.
Anyway, you can look at the book on Amazon…you could probably read the entire chapter, cuase they allow you to browse the book. So give it a go, if you feel like you really just must know, what the hell happened.
Also I could send you an electronic version of the book, just gimme your email. Like I said, Chapter 12 is the cliff notes version of this story.
That’s the best I can do for ya, cause it is going to take me some time to write out this whole book…