I’m feeling for all of the parents and all of the kids everywhere. I can’t imagine this happening to me when my kids were young and I was raising them. It would have just ripped a hole in everyone’s life. As it stands being a married empty nester, I realize that my losses are far less than most peoples, all I have lost is a social life that I sort of loved; and as much as that saddens and pains me, you make me realize that others have lost so much more.