It’s a pretty ridiculous statement, like blacks “just saying no” to the Derek Chauvins of the police. Clearly, it doesn’t work that way.
I agree that women need to find greater self-reliance, but “just saying no” to toxic masculinity (and most of that toxicity does come from an insecurity regarding access to or protection of sex) isn’t really an option.
Men need to become less toxic! It’s just that simple. With the Millenials, it seems to be happening. They view gender and sexuality different and given all of the sick, sick, sick the very binary gender roles have given us: rampant pedaphilia, rampant sex slavery, rape culture, rampant violence around rape culture, Id say it’s time for a change.