It’s true…it’s a really bad and ugly divorce…I know because I lived through one with my parents and now, to live through it nationally? It’s pretty disturbing. But people do go their separate ways and thrive, so that’s what I’m determined to do. I am not going to let all that ugliness, bitterness and fear ruin my life. Remember the words of John Lennon, am amazing peace activist, war is over, if you want it to be.