That right there…honestly, if these are always your experiences, the problem is you. And I am not saying that to be ridiculously judgmental, I am saying that because I have been there. At a certain point, you gotta look in the mirror and ask yourself, “why does the same ish always happen to me?” Hopefully, sooner than later.
You should read my book. Of course, I know you won’t, but I wrote it for people just like you. I’ll just leave you with this bit of advice, you can find your way through, if you really want to. Not gonna lie to you, it won’t be easy…but you can do it.