Yeah he’s angry and there’s nothing you will be able to say to him that will relieve that anger. He is looking for an outlet and has decided you are it. He’s not making a lot of sense, but I understand the frustration. Quite honestly, a lot of sucky things are happening to men right now, unfortunately instead of putting the blame where it squarely belongs (wealthy socio or psychopaths who manipulate us all) most men have decided to blame women.
I don’t know why that is, but here’s my advice about the AJ rant, vibrate out. Know that this really has nothing to do with you. Don’t match the frequency, because then it will. You don’t want that.