Yeah…I stumbled into one of these rabbit wholes. I watched a documentary called “A Tired Black Man” a good ten years ago. The documentarian created a website and chat room…which was all of this described in this article. Crazy! I don’t know why I spent as much time as I did, in those chats talking to men like the ones you have described here. I was just shocked, really to learn how resentful so many black men were about their relationships (or lack thereof) with black women. I saw myself as being extremely lucky to have stumbled into an extraordinarily functional relationship with a black man, give the state of current affairs with regard to black love, which on this particular website was nonexistent.