It indicates that men feel, as individuals, that they are good people. And that to point out to them that they’ve lived their lives within a rape culture is some kind of attack on them on a personal level—because, as good men, they would have noticed and done something about it if it were true. Therefore, to these men, the culture cannot exist — otherwise it would force them to question their place in that culture. It’s twisted logic at its finest.
Yeah this is it. Lots of twisted logic going on with regard to far too many things. The truth is out there, but very few want to acknowledge it.