This is an important life hack to learn, by the way, and I’ve managed to create a really amazing life for myself by espousing it. Rather than wasting energy pushing against areas of extreme inertia and fighting the things you don’t want, try just pouring your energy into the juicy, sexy directions that you do want instead. Instead of pouring your energy into NOs, pour it into YESes, into positive action. Try it. You’ll tap into something really magical.